Dating A Kenyan Lady? Sgns That She Is About To Dump You

As Kenyan men, there are a number of reasons that ladies dump us. Sometimes it depends on the type of lady you are dating.  For example if she’s ratchet, chances are that she’s thirsty and not morally upright. She’s probably not hardworking enough too. So here are the odds:  A man in an influential position offered her a lucrative deal or job. He now owns her and since she needs what he’s offering, she has no choice but to follow the power. Since these types of ladies are known to instantly grab things that are better than what they have, there’s also the possibility that she was tapped by a guy who is a bedroom ‘mburi’ yet you are just the one minute man. She tested what he had to offer and invested in it.
s Kenyan men, there are a number of reasons that ladies dump us. Sometimes it depends on the type of lady you are dating.  For example if she’s ratchet, chances are that she’s thirsty and not morally upright. She’s probably not hardworking enough too. So here are the odds:  A man in an influential position offered her a lucrative deal or job. He now owns her and since she needs what he’s offering, she has no choice but to follow the power. Since these types of ladies are known to instantly grab things that are better than what they have, there’s also the possibility that she was tapped by a guy who is a bedroom ‘Bully’ yet you are just the one minute man. She tested what he had to offer and invested in it.
If she’s a good and responsible lady, here are her odds of dumping you: You are too lazy, you have poor decision making, you cheat, you add no value to her life, you don’t appreciate her, you are making no progress in your life, you are resistant to change and so on. She’ll definitely dump you. Of course she won’t shout at you and tell you, “Fredy! You are very resistant to change, I’m leaving,” or “Khalifa, I just found a guy who can make my music career better, so I’m leaving.”
Understanding women isn’t that easy. We men often fail.  However, one thing that is a fact about break-ups is that women usually don’t just decide to quit then do so all at once.  Women don’t just wake-up one day and decide to leave. They think about it, talk to their trusted girls and set their future plans, perhaps even their next boyfriends.
Women don’t often shout out their displeasure at something but the good news is that by just paying a bit of attention, it usually isn’t hard to get a handle on what is going on inside her head. If she’s thinking that there’s nowhere the two of you are going, her actions will be affected. Remember, she isn’t sending out these signals consciously, so the odds are good that her true feelings will be visible before she is able to say anything out loud
Here are the signs a Kenyan girl might just dump you.
She gives you unrealistic tests
A Kenyan woman will give you very unrealistic tests when she’s tired of dating you. She’ll start desiring things that are beyond your reach. She’ll want a bigger house when you are struggling to pay your rent, she’ll want you to take your child to an expensive school when you have just lost your job. She’ll want you to make love to her until morning when you have been working all day and still have deadlines to beat. If you are a young guy for example, she’ll insist that you take her to the Sh.1000 movie at IMAX yet she knows you can only afford the Sh 200 morning show.
Women don’t usually like being the ones doing the dumping, so when they are fed up with you, they try pushing you to a point where you’ll give up or dump them. All this is because women are emotional and they don’t like doing things they might regret

She doesn’t stamp her authority

A Kenyan lady will  “accidentally on purpose” leave things at your house to ensure or indicate a repeat visit. That’s if she likes you. She will make herself comfortable in your place and leave a few things lying around. This is also done to ensure that another girl who visits is immediately discouraged from pursuing you further. She wants you to herself.  If your girlfriend always packs a complete overnight bag and is reluctant to leave anything behind, it might signal that she isn’t sure that you are going to remain on her to-do list and she is wary of losing those precious items for good.
She ‘logs out’ when you ‘log in’
I have used ‘log in’ and ‘log out’ both metaphorically and literally. It might mean she switches off whenever you get in the mood or she becomes fond of hide and seek. The main point here is communication.
Social networks are very vital for communication these days. Whatsapp for example, is loved by most Kenyan ladies. It isn’t rare to find a lady Whatsapping while twerking at the dancefloor or cooking.  If she has disabled her ‘last seen’ feature you have problems. Or maybe she always gets other things to do whenever you start chatting with her.
And it’s not just Whatsapp. She gets very private about her phone, computer and all forms of technology. She always leaves the room to have phone conversations privately or stops talking when you come in the room. She doesn’t confide in you or discuss her problems with you. She’s vague about where she’s going or where she’s been and avoids time alone with you. Your need for explanation always causes arguments. These are all signs of her loss of interest in you.
She makes outrageous accusations or none at all
When a Kenyan lady doesn’t like you anymore, she’ll accuse you of all sorts of things, from flirting with Shiko the workmate to being too close to Mama Mboga. She’ll have an A to Z list of complaints  and will keep nagging just to make you blow.
Or maybe the fighting just stops. Once in a while you’ll catch her staring at you with a stern face without saying anything. When you ask her what the problem is, you’ll get responses like “Nothing’s wrong really.” A woman with no emotional investment in you and the relationship won’t bother what you do, where you are or whether you make a mistake or not. It can be put this way, people will not argue if they have no desire for resolution. That’s what makes make-up sex so great.  A Kenyan woman who loves you will normally argue then try to enforce a resolution. If she has no interest in arguing or resolving things whatsoever, you are doomed.
She doesn’t make future plans
Contrary to popular belief, planning ahead is the hallmark of what makes a relationship serious rather than casual. A woman who loves you is usually eager secure you so that she won’t miss out on the opportunity to show you off and spend a lifetime with you.
Kenyan ladies desire a lot of things including glamorous weddings, babies and admiration from their friends. If your lady isn’t dropping hints about events or plans then she isn’t sure you’ll be around. She just doesn’t want future complications.
Not every one of us men can mind-read women, but just about any man can stay tuned to the subconscious actions of a woman who is wavering . If you stay on your right mind, you’ll see the signs